Judgement

When Claire was four years old she aways wanted to be a ballerina. One day her mother brought her a fairy outfit and later Claire put it on and wanted to surprise her mother with her version of being a ballerina. Her mother just watched and when the show was over just laughed and turned to her friend and said she was hopeless and would never be a ballerina. The emotional wound from that is something Claire carried into adulthood about not being good enough. 

But it's not just children that are hurt by judgements, adults are as well. It is for this reason that the training of managers in corporate is to judge behaviours or actions and not the person themselves and take action about the unwanted behaviours or action. And needing to judge this is important for many aspects of life such as teachers judging students work, a manager judging an employee doing a job, or even in family or in personal relationships having agreement or how the other person behaves is a foundation to being able to harmoniously co exists.   

A US colleague called Michael Newton was a pioneer and author of spiritual between lives regression told me while doing his research clients come to his house to explore soul memories. On one occasion while waiting for a subject to appear he heard a loud noise outside his house. Looking out of his window he saw a man dressed in leathers with Hells Angels marking who was parking his motor bicycle. When he came to the door Michael made a judgment about him as a person and thought he had come to the wrong house. Eventually he had his soul regression and it turned out that Dan in the Hells Angel jacket was an evolved soul who's earthy job was to counsel long distance lorry drivers with their life issues and his appearance enabled him to fit into this environment. 

Unless we know the soul intent of a person its very easy to make a mistake on judging other by their appearance.

John was walking down the street and saw a young child standing in the middle of the street and then a wild haired woman ran to the child, picking up the child as it screamed and ran to the other side of the road.

Was the woman the child's mother rescuing them from being run over, or was she in the process of kidnapping the child? Just by watching a behaviour or persons action a wrong judgement can be made. In this case we would need to know the intent of a person to make a correct judgement. The problem with wrong judgements is they are  based on inadequate information and it can be hurtful to the other person and may impact their career.   

Perhaps rather than always judging others by their outworld appearance and actions we can look at from an energetic perspective. Does a person we are with raise our energy vibrations or lower it. Do they add energy to us or lower it. Then we can make a decision of either being with them more often, or creating a barrier of having less time with them. Or accepting they are on a different path and thank them for whatever life learning we have had from them, detach and allow space for others to fill the space that have the right energy vibration.

So perhaps reflect over the last few weeks any personal judgement you have made about other people, perhaps those with less power than you, or those you cannot control such as politicians or members of pressure groups. Even if it was not expressed to the person directly having the judgment thought programs a duality in our mind. And then consider what you want to do in the future. 

Who in your life is drawing energy from you or lowering your energy vibration because they are holding negative energies such as fear, anger or depression and not working through them. What action about the situation do you want to make?

Any comments of other insights about judgement can be shared below

Love Andy and Reena